A Call To Action – Do You Have What It Takes?

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Gentlemen,

I don’t have any time to waste and I sincerely hope that you don’t either.

That’s why I’m talking to you here, now, like a man. Not as your friend, not as your parent, not as a kind passing stranger. We are speaking like men.

You are dying

The clock has already started ticking, and every single second you spend not living the way you want to be living is a second stolen away. Gone. Vanished. Forever.

Does it really matter when you’re going to die? If you found out you had 6 months to live, how would you behave? What if it was 6 years? or 60?

None of this time even matters – the fuse has been lit and sooner or later it will run out of cord and will extinguish. It’s what you do during that time that counts.

I can bet you right now that you aren’t living the way that you want to be living. You watch passively as incredible woman after incredible woman walk by. You sit by helplessly as you see everyone in the bar having a great time but you. You drown out your own sorrow in pointless TV reruns and cheap junk food, while you know everyone else is out and about.

What are you afraid of?

You’re dying man!

The person I described above was me! And when I realized just how useless all of this is, how my life will some day end, I woke up.

Most people will not take action out of fear. Fear of rejection, fear of judgment, but also, fear of success. The simple fact is that you claim to want ‘the 10s’, you claim to want ‘the good life’, but you have no idea what that even looks like. You can’t even fathom yourself possessing these things you dream of.

A simple test: Look at yourself the way you are now. Now imagine you saw yourself walking down the street with an incredibly stunning woman. She was on your arm, laughing uncontrollably and gripping you tightly, as if she never wants to let go. Would you look back, smile and think to yourself “Yeah, of course he’s with her. Of course he’s got his shit together… It makes sense”? Or would you instead think “what the hell is she doing with him?”

If you went with option two, you need to rethink your life. And that’s actually a good thing! It means you have work to do. It means you get to embark on the most exciting journey of all; the journey of finding yourself!

Most of You will never get good

Did you know that most people never get good? Be it in the seduction industry or the self-development industry. The failure rate is frighteningly high.

Why?

For the simple reason that most people don’t want it bad enough. They have this self-image and they seek only to enhance that self-image without actually risking it, without ever putting their real personality on the line.

I knew a guy who had been in the seduction community for 8 years (and probably still is now) and has had literally zero success, zero transformation. He got off on giving advice to others, even though he was desperately pitiful at speaking to women.

What happened?

He made an identity out of being someone who needs help. He never came to understand that if he found himself, if he knew that he deserved the best the world had to offer him, then he would live in that reality. Instead, he built an identity around someone who needs something external to give him the internal validation he craved, and so he spent years and years reading the newest material, watching the newest videos, and spending thousands of dollars on pickup boot camps… With little to show of it

Don’be okay, be great!

But that’s not you. Not here, not now, not ever.

You’ve looked around you at the sea of mediocrity and you decided that this is not for you. You are aware of your imminent demise, and so all resentment, anger, fear is shelved – put aside, never to be looked at again. You don’t have a second to waste.

Isn’t it interesting how women are biologically designed to be attracted to the men who stand out?

Your journey of self-improvement coincides with your level of attractiveness. You see, it’s not about creating attraction, it’s about being attractive overall. Being – not doing.

So today, right here, right now, you are amongst men. We are sitting around the fire and looking up at the stars. I want you to make a solemn vow that you will no longer accept good enough. You will no longer cling to an artificial self-image; let it die, take the ego beating and let it die. You are a new man, you are a man reborn.

Now go off into the world. Get out, go! Your inaction is depriving women of a good man.

Your fan,

Patrick

About the author Patrick Ananda

Patrick is a scoundrel, rogue, vagabond and founder of THE CENTERED MAN PROJECT. He teaches men how to overcome their social anxiety and fear of rejection, by unleashing their unshakable self-confidence.