If we ask you about the most important component of the date, many of you will say ‘chemistry’. However, if we ask you to describe it, many would say something inconclusive and unhelpful; something like ‘the spark’ or ‘the moment when something clicks’. The problem here is that since many of us can't accurately describe the chemistry, it can become something unachievable, a myth. So, many think that chemistry is either there, or it isn’t.