Bondage For Beginners: How To Do Bondage & Discipline To Spice Up Your Sex Life

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Since the arrival of the infamous Fifty Shades of Grey series, we have been witness to a huge surge of interest in all things bondage. E.L. James as the author can be credited with not only coming from nowhere to literally dominate the fiction market but she can also be credited with bringing the topic of light bondage to the masses.

While previously it had been seen as largely a niche interest area, the sexual preferences of the book’s main protagonist, Mr. Christian Grey has aroused a new interest in many. As a result, we have seen huge sales rise in bondage wear and Google search terms like the word ‘bondage’ has increased over 100%.

Dipping one’s toe into bondage doesn’t necessarily mean having to fit out a room just like Christian Grey’s infamous Red Room of Pain. While the fictional character had the millions to do so, bondage can be partaken without any outlay of money. Light bondage can involve simply hair pulling, blind-folding, or wrist tying, all of which can be done using simple everyday items like bath robe belts and ladies tights.

The most important thing with bondage is that all parties are 100% comfortable with the notion. If one party is interested in trying it out they should intimate this and discuss it with their partner. Tentative steps can be taken to introduce light aspects into bedroom play and as a result, the experience won’t intimidate or isolate either party. With enough planning and equal input and understanding, the move into bondage can become a very rewarding side to a couple’s sex life and bring a new dimension to it.

This infographic address the subject of bondage for beginners. It gives some insight as to getting started in this area; what you need, how to set the scene, and other important points to know before your first foray into this exciting world.

Bondage For Beginners

About the author Elizabeth Morris

Elizabeth Morris is the resident sex-pert @ Carvaka and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Human Biology. Carvaka is an online retailer who specialise in adult toys and specifically Vibrators.