Here are some tips for impressing your woman based on her zodiac sign, and also a couple of relationship warning signs to keep in the back of your mind.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
Aries women like their men aggressive, so if you are pursuing someone new is bold and ask them out on a special date. In a relationship, suggest trying something new and don’t be afraid to make decisions, why not order her meal for her at the restaurant, or buy her a dress for the date and ask her to wear it. But make sure you don’t take it too far, no one likes to be controlled.
When it comes to sex, she may appear shy at first, but one of the characteristics of Aries is that she wants to be bold. Show them that your bed is a safe place where she can explore and take the lead.
Watch out for when she is putting on a show for you, showing you that she is strong and happy, even when she is struggling. The words ‘I’m fine’ should bee a warning flag. Don’t push her to share what’s on her mind if she isn’t ready, but show her that she can trust you with her thoughts.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Taurus women prefer to take it slow, so be patient and don’t try to move too fast. But she loves romance, so think about little things you can do for her during the day. Send the occasional message telling her you are thinking about her, sneak a special treat into her lunchbox, if it’s a special occasion, send flowers to her work, she’ll probably be embarrassed as hell, but she’ll love it!
When it comes to sex, foreplay is important, she doesn’t want to jump straight in. But when you are in the throws of passion, keep it energetic.
Taurus women always like to stay calm and patient, so you may think you have hit the jackpot. But they have a tendency to let little things that are bothering them build up, which can unexpectedly explode. If something happens and she says she isn’t angry, don’t take it as a free pass, try and work it out to avoid suffering the consequences further down the line.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Gemini women like excitement, and they want a man that can bring fun and new experiences into their life. Make sure your first date, and your regular date night, is always something new, fun and interesting. She might have a favourite restaurant, but that doesn’t mean she wants to go there every Friday night. Make sure you always have something new to do up your sleeve.
When it comes to sex, Gemini women love to talk and will tell you what they want. She’ll also want you to return the favour and tell her what you like. If you are too quiet, she might wonder why.
Gemini are very changeable, and often change their minds about things in the moment. In order not to get caught out as being flaky, they may lie about it, saying they forgot something, didn’t know something, or never said something. This isn’t really an attempt to hide something from you, just to protect themselves from judgement.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Cancer women are highly emotional, so the key to keeping her happy is to take the time to listen to her feelings and show her that you understand. If she tells you she’s feeling a little bloated right now, don’t bring home a slice of chocolate cake to make her feel better, she’ll just think you haven’t been listening, plan a hike or a trip to the gym together.
When it comes to sex, Cancer women like to be pampered. A bubble bath, champagne, candles, all will help set the mood.
Cancer women tend to want to deal with issues on their own without help, she’ll even want to deal with relationship issues herself without you! Keep your eyes open for signs that she might be struggling with something, and make sure she knows you are there for her, without pushing her to open up and share everything with you.
Leo (July 23-August 22)
Leo women and confident and dominant and like to take the lead. She wants a strong man who isn’t intimidated by her strength and can let her dominate when she wants, but can also occasionally show her that they can be boss too. Despite her confident nature, her ego is a bit fragile, so make sure you don’t trample it.
When it comes to sex, Leo women want your full attention and admiration, so don’t be afraid to compliment them on what you like. While they will probably try to exert a lot of control in the bedroom, she also appreciates seeing your dominant side.
Leo women always have a lot of friends, and yes, she is talking about you to them! She’ll tell them all the amazing and funny things that you do, but also vent to them when you screw up. She won’t, however, share any of her own mistakes and insecurities. If you walk into a room and her friends go quiet, perhaps have a quick think about what you might have done to piss her off.
Virgo (August 23-September 22)
Virgo is a synonym for perfectionist, so make sure you always look smart for your date, pack your toothbrush, and don’t leave your dirty socks on their floor! Virgos can be harsh critics, especially of themselves, which can leave them feeling a little inadequate, so they crave reassurance. Make sure you are constantly reminding them why they are the woman for you.
When it comes to sex, Virgo women are still seeking perfection, so make sure you have clean sheets and no chance of being interrupted. Once you have found the perfect time and place, she’ll be able to relax and explore new things with you.
Virgo’s don’t like others to see their faults, so she might tell a few white lies in order to make sure you see her in the best light. Don’t worry, she isn’t hiding things from you, she’s just protecting herself. If she has a big secret she is lying about, don’t worry, you’ll know, Virgo women are terrible at hiding their guilt.
Libra (September 23-October 22)
Libra women are always looking for balance, so don’t try and do everything together and be part of every part of her life, let her have her space. When you are spending time together make sure it is quality, and that she feels like she is spending her time with you wisely. Checking your messages while at dinner or drinks together is not OK.
When it comes to sex, Libra women like to make the first move, but will want to see that their current desire is returned, so make sure you also take the initiative.
Libra like to move slow, keep in balance, and never change things to quickly. As a result, sometimes relationships can progress faster than they are comfortable with, but if she has feelings for you, she won’t want you to know, so they won’t tell you. Watch out for signs that you may be moving too fast.
Scorpio (October 23-November 21)
Scorpio women like to be in control of everything, including themselves, and they don’t let their emotions rise to the surface for others to see. Rather than a case of opposites attract, Scorpio women prefer men that maintain a bit of mystery about themselves. Don’t give everything away at once, and plan the occasional surprise to keep her guessing.
When it comes to sex, Scorpio women become even more dominant. She’s adventurous so enjoy the ride, but make sure you show her what you like as well.
Scorpio women like to push boundaries, so they may do things that they know they shouldn’t just to try and get away with it. Despite this, they don’t lie often, so if you catch her out in a lie you can be sure she are hiding something.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
Stimulating conversation and a good sense of humour is a Sagittarius woman’s aphrodisiac, so make sure you always bring your A game, and nothing too cheesy! Don’t be afraid to introduce her to your friends early, so she can see you at your best (and hopefully funniest). Don’t worry about them sharing embarrassing stories about you, she’ll love it!
When it comes to sex, Sagittarius women don’t like it too serious. No need to woo with candle light and champagne, or spend hours cuddling afterwards. Make sure it is spontaneous and fun.
Sagittarius will often break appointments with you or change plans on you at the last minute. This isn’t because you are unimportant, but rather because they struggle to plan much beyond the here and now. You should only start to worry if she starts cancelling on things that she knows are important to you.
Capricorn (December 22-January 19)
Capricorn women value sincerity, so always be open and honest with your feelings and affections, but don’t overdo it, she can’t stand cheesy! If you are starting a new relationship make sure you reveal your interests and passions little by little to keep reeling her in. If you are in a relationship look for new things that you can try together.
When it comes to sex, Capricorn women appreciate the seduction, starting with the invitation. Plan dinner, a massage, and build up to the moment.
Capricorn women will want to know everything about you. They might stalk your social media accounts and take the occasional peak at your phone. This isn’t a sign that they don’t trust you, just their intense curiosity. Be aware of this habit and don’t get mad if you catch them at it.
Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
Aquarius women know who they are and what they want in life, and when it comes to men you are either on board or in the way. She’ll appreciate you if your have your own unique and strong style and personality, and let her have her own, without ever trying to change her. Make sure you show an active interest in what she is interested in. Surprise tickets to see a band that she mentioned she liked in passing three months ago will win you major brownie points.
When it comes to sex, she loves spontaneity and surprise. Yes, dinner can go cold if now is the right moment for both of you.
Aquarius women speak their mind and will tell you if there is a problem, but they often regret their words and try and laugh them off as a joke after the fact. Aquarius women rarely say things they don’t mean, so don’t believe them if they tell you it was just a joke.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Pisces women are romantics that love to give and receive love. Don’t be afraid to go a little over the top in showing her how you feel, no those dozen red roses are not too much! As well as loving romance, she has a lot of empathy and compassion. Surprise her with a date to a charity event, or an animal shelter. She will melt.
When it comes to sex, she has a vivid imagination, so make sure to use your words to paint a picture of what you have in mind. A text message the next day reminding her of the amazing night you had will also be well received.
Pisces women are incredibly honest, but may tell white lies or hide things in order to keep the peace. Sometimes they will tell you something isn’t a problem just to keep you happy, but are likely to brood on the problem for days to come. Keep an eye open for unspoken signs that things might e amiss.