How To Prepare Yourself For The First Meeting With a Psychic

By Patrick Banks

Posted 2 weeks agoOTHER

Let’s prepare you for your first meeting with a Psychic. A problematic situation, a confusing battle in the head or stuck at the crossroads, this can happen to anyone. In times like these people often go to seek spiritual guidance or approach the science that gives you information from the world beyond.
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Psychic reading involves a person with heightened perceptive abilities seeking information using his/her sixth sense. They are gifted people with a vision that goes beyond what an ordinary human could fathom. 

If you have decided to approach a psychic for any particular reason, there is nothing to be nervous about. Just like any professional service, you will find talented practitioners who make your satisfaction their #1 goal. However, if you don’t know what to expect from your psychic reading, some people can take advantage of your situation and play on your vulnerability. Therefore, it is essential to know how to gain maximum benefit from your psychic session

We have put together a little guide to help you prepare for your first session.

Let’s begin:

1. Know the Psychic

It is good that you went online and kept on scrolling till you found that one particular psychic, who you thought might be able to help you. But did you do your research?

Well, it will hardly take any time but make sure you research well about the psychic. Read the reviews, and maybe get in touch with one of his clients to get a better understanding of how he/she works. 

Trust us, knowing them before your first meeting will be a little helpful. Moreover, keep an open mind towards psychic readings. If you happen to have a preconceived notion about psychics, set it aside and let your energy flow freely. 

Also, don’t set very high, unrealistic expectations from the session. While psychics are gifted and blessed with spiritual power, they are not magicians. You can sure expect them to provide you with some clarity and answers to your questions, but expecting them to rid you off your worries, now that’s not realistic. They do provide guidance to you on all things life.

2. Avoid certain search platforms

Don’t choose the first psychic you come across on the internet. Just like you research adequately before buying a new phone, consider this a similar investment. Make sure you stay away from recommendations from third-party apps, unsolicited emails, and fraudulents who ask you for a sign-up fee. 

Renowned psychics have their dedicated website or work with a reliable directory. They care about their reputation and therefore, aim to build trust and credibility through their services. Remember, the self-proclaimed experts who push you further to purchase additional services are after their business, they don’t care about you. So, stay away.

3. Know the medium


Decided on the psychic? Now research about his medium. Different psychics practice different mediums. Some people usually choose the medium first and then the psychic, but if it’s your first time, you can go the other way round. 

The way one particular medium works is different from the others, so it is essential you know about the basics. Astrology, palm reading, crystal ball are just a few examples.

4. Know the Questions

Know what you need. Define your goals. If you are clear in your head about why you are seeing a psychic, the session will highly benefit you. It truly will. It will also help you prepare for the reading. 

Not a necessity, but we will suggest that you are prepped up for the sessions. By prepping up, you are well aware and in control of the session. The psychic will also get a clear understanding of the things you want to know, and this will save up their time and yours. If needed, you can write it down and carry a small note around.

5. Know that you have to be accepting

Nothing will ever work if you don’t accept the discussion you have with your psychic. We suggest that you go for the session with an open heart and take in everything your spiritual guide has to offer. If you have the slightest of doubt about anything, feel free to clarify as many times as you want, but never go home confused. The psychic’s goal is to provide customer satisfaction, so they will make sure to shoo all your doubts away.

Just relax and let them work their magic. If you keep up with apprehensions even after the reading, it won’t help you at all. It will further make you feel disappointed.

6. Know you have to act

Once the session is over, it doesn’t mean the problems will move away on their own. Your psychic will offer you solutions or practices that you must follow. If you have given this a shot, you must let this decision reach fruition. Nothing will work if you leave it midway. Be patient and do as suggested and wait for things to unfold.

You won’t regret it.

Also, predictions are not always true. They have a deeper meaning. So, even if the reading didn’t go as positive as you had anticipated, don’t give up hope. It’s never too late to make those changes in your life. Yes, it’s your life. Always remember, you are in control. 

The psychic acts as a guide, a teacher or someone who can bring you out of agony. But it is you and only you, who can act on their suggestions and make things better for yourself. You can win anything you want with full determination. If you seek guidance and not a solution; this journey will get better.

What To Ask Yourself After A Psychic Reading

No matter why you seek psychic guidance, you would want to achieve benefits from the session. To make sure you fully understand what the psychic advised, ask yourself below-mentioned questions after the reading. Also, remember, it’s okay to be overwhelmed with all the information pushed towards you, everything will eventually work out. 

Question 1 What Exactly Did Your Psychic Say?

This is a pretty straightforward question, but amidst the stress to gain maximum out of your session, it’s easy to get lost. So, make sure you try to remember exactly what your psychic told you. In order to do that, it’s crucial that you listen carefully during the reading. If you aren’t confident whether you will remember each and everything after the session, seek permission from the professional to record it. Quality, reliable, professional psychics are usually comfortable with the recording. You can also write down important points if that can help you remember the essential aspects of the reading. 

Question 2 Did You Gain Clarity Regarding Anything In Life?

While some people claim that they achieve clarity during the psychic reading, some people cannot resonate deeply. And that is okay. Not everything is clear to the eyes. It’s pretty common that people take some time to understand what the reading actually meant. So, don’t pressurize yourself. Keep it calm and ask yourself, “Were your issues resolved?”, “Did you get your answers”? 

When you sit down and analyze the reading, you can come across a lot of helpful points.

Question 3 Did Anything Resonate From Within?

When the psychic is performing a reading, there may be moments when you feel like something that the professional said resonated deeply within you. You may feel like the advisor picked on something that has been bothering you since long. If such a thing happens during the reading, make proper note of it. It might be something that can help you achieve peace.

Question 4 Were Your Readings In Sync With Each Other?

Most psychics follow a theme when providing guidance. That theme may provide you with answers to many more questions than you anticipated. So, sit down and try to remember if your readings were in sync with each other. The chances are likely that your love reading or career reading might help you decipher the secret to leading a successful life. Take the reading as a message or goal, something you must implement or work hard to achieve. 

Question 5 Did You Form Any Conclusions?

If you formed any conclusions during the reading, it’s better if you think them through, again. During the reading, it is easy for our emotions to get the best of us. So, take note of these conclusions, and ask yourself, why did you form them? It’s possible that your insecurities were dominating your logic during the reading, but now that pressure is gone, you can rethink and open your mind to decisions that can positively affect you. 

It’s normal to feel confused before and after the reading. But it is essentially important to find a way to process all this information. 

Final Thoughts

Finding a psychic for offline or online reading can be very tricky and stressful, especially when it’s your first time. However, if you know what you are looking for and what you expect from the session, things can actually turn in your favour. Every psychic approaches their readings in a unique way. So, evaluate your choices carefully. 

Hopefully, this was helpful.

About the author Patrick Banks

Patrick is a Berlin-based dating advisor, motivational speaker, a huge fitness and vegan diet enthusiast and the main editor at Wingman Magazine, specialised in men's health. His ultimate goal is to share with men around the world his passion for self-development and to help them to become the greatest version of themselves. He believes a healthy body and successful social interactions are two main keys to happiness.