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About the author
Carmel Jones
Carmel Jones is the founder of The Big Fling, a sex-positive blog dedicated to fighting toxic masculinity and providing helpful info on dating and sex. After graduating with a MSW, she moved to Philadelphia, PA where she now lives with her fiancé.