What to Say To a Girl in Real Life? 15 Effective Phrases to Make a Girl Attracted to You

By Patrick Banks

Posted 3 years agoDATING

Approaching a girl you like may seem as the most difficult thing in the world. We’ve all been there. Despite that, the only bit of advice you’re probably getting is “just do it.” Well, just doing it is easy, but that alone is not enough.
What to Say To a Girl in Real Life

You’ll want to get her phone number at least. Not that there’s anything disastrous about being turned down. Sure, your ego might just be bruised for a day or two, but you’ll be okay by then.

Why You Should Trust My Tips:

Getting women was one of the things I struggled with growing up. Even as a handsome young man that wasn’t enough to get the girls I liked. I read different books about women, took advice from various folks, but nothing changed. In fact, I got humiliated on several occasion because I was using the wrong approaches.

From being the crazy guy, I became so famous that every girl wanted to date me. How is that even possible? Yes, things started happening fast. Guess what; I discovered the power of words and the effect it has on women.

Even though normally I’m busy helping others to write papers, this time I have decided to share my secret weapon to help you get girls of your choice.

So let’s get down to business.

So what can you do to boost your chances of getting that date? And once you are on your first date with that cute girl, how do you make sure there is a second one and another one after that? The following tips from psychologists and research writers might hold the answer:

1. Do you have a moment? I’d like to hit on you.

Direct, but humorous at the same time. You break the ice without scaring her away, and by breaking the “fourth wall,” you avoid being cheesy.

2. What the one thing you would save from a house fire?

People like to talk about themselves, and girls are no exception. You will come off as a great listener, and you will get to know her better.

3. If you could have one superpower, which one would you choose and why?

Again, it’s playful, and it’s ideal for creating playful banter. Ask her why she chooses that particular one, and once she does, jokingly add how you would have chosen a better one. The conversation will develop itself after that.

4. I swiped so many times until I found you.

If you are trying to land a date online, this one hasn’t been done to death yet, and it will make your potential date feel a bit special because you’ve chosen her out of dozens of other girls.

5. Do you live in this beautiful place?

Be inquisitive but don’t overdo it. Ask a girl something like this will grab her attention. Besides, you are complementing the area and indirectly doing the same for the people living in there. Women like guys that are appreciative, and you have just shown her you are one with such words.

6. I am happy to meet someone as smart as you, can I know you?

Again, women like it when you compliment them. In fact, everyone does. It is just like putting sugar in her tea, weird right? But that’s it. Saying, someone is smart means the person in question is beautiful, hardworking, attentive, and possesses great qualities.

7. Can I be of any help to you?

Kind but sometimes, expect a no from her. She might need your help but feel too shy to admit it. You don’t have to relent, take the shot while you have the chance. Insist on helping her even if she refuses. If you want to win a girl over, always show that you care. If you meet her doing something or carrying a load, you have to relieve her of the burden.

It will create a good impression about you and make her think of how helpful you will be to her when you finally come into her life. There are many things you can do for her and once you get a chance, do not hesitate to take the shot.

8. What color of dress do you love wearing most?

Asking about her belongings like what she likes wearing is one of the things you say to show you want to know more about her and that you are interested in her, too. If she tells you the color she likes, ask her why she chose that particular one. You can go a little deep by asking if she would put on that same color of dress she loves “if” you go out on a date with her.

9. If given a chance to play a song repeatedly, what would that song be?

You might have heard the word that music is food for the soul, so if she likes music, your chance of having a date with her is high. Asking her about her favorite song is like asking her about the most memorable day of her life. Her favorite song might just have a connection to a memorable day in her life. Be inquisitive but do not overstep your boundary. If she tells you her favorite song, ask her why she chose that song as well.

10. You look like someone that loves to keep pets, do you have one?

If she has a pet that she adores, then you are on the right path to winning her heart. People, especially girls, like to talk about something they own. She can go on and on without stopping. Ask her more questions about her pet and why she likes it.

Or, if you can afford to splurge a little, you can even buy something for their pet. It’s a small gesture, but can be a good way to show them that you’re serious about them and their interests.”
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11. Do you have a favorite restaurant you would love to visit someday?

Her response will let you know if she is someone that likes to eat out. Do not ask her out on a dinner date just yet. Just find out her favorite restaurant and what she loves about the place. Once you have that information, you can make better plans when looking for a place to take her for a date.

12. What is your favorite meal?

Don’t act like you own a sociology degree, but allow your questions to come out naturally. If a girl tells you about her favorite meal, tell her you would like to watch her enjoy it. You have just asked her out indirectly, and the response you get afterwards would prompt you to take the next step.

13. Have you ever tried running more than 3 hours?

If you have done some experiments like running and got some results, go ahead and share it with her. You can explain what took place after you ran for 3 hours. And if she has done the same, ask her to share her experience with you.

14. I have an unusual request but would like to send you in writing.

Now you have to be highly creative on this one. You need to write something that will make someone fall in love with you. The good thing about writing is that there is a very high possibility that she is not in haste when reading your write up, so this is the right time to win her over.

You can request for the professional help from a writing service company. You will find professionals that will give you a good write up that will persuade and make her fall in love with you faster than you think.

15. There is something special about you that I just can’t figure out

Girls like it when you make them feel special. They want to know at any time what others think of them. A girl would spend more than 5 hours in front of the mirror because she wants to look her best. However, when you ask her questions like this, she will want to find out what you think about her, and that will make her pay more attention to whatever you have to say. In fact, you have just worked on her psychology and trapped her mind too.

Women may play hard to get, but if you know your way around, you can easily make them fall in love with you. There are simple ways and phrases you can use not just to grab attention but make girls desire to go out on a date with you. We have highlighted some of those phrases to help you get any girl of your choice, now is left for you to take action to land your first date.

About the author Patrick Banks

Patrick is a Berlin-based dating advisor, motivational speaker, a huge fitness and vegan diet enthusiast and the main editor at Wingman Magazine, specialised in men's health. His ultimate goal is to share with men around the world his passion for self-development and to help them to become the greatest version of themselves. He believes a healthy body and successful social interactions are two main keys to happiness.