Gentlemen, today you’re going to learn how to get any woman or women you want.
Not all girls are created equal, but some of their wants, needs, and traits are universal. Focus on these particularities and you’ll be sure to impress any girl out there.
Bonus: at the end of the article, there’s one huge mistake to avoid when you’re trying to get the girl of your dreams.
1. Brand Yourself Correctly
The number one rule in branding is to find out what the audience needs and to present yourself as the only company who can solve that need.
To solve this problem, the company starts with market research, including its main competitors.
That’s exactly what you have to do to get hot girls. A hot girl who is single must have had some relationship problems before. So what did her exes do wrong?
To brand yourself correctly, you have to show you’re unique. Show her you’re different than all the other people she dated. Find out what the lacked in her previous relationships and then rise up to the challenge.
Does she want an adventure like jumping off of buildings? Does she want security? Someone who will hide secret love notes in her lunch?
Be the guy who does that.
Usually, guys tend to act according to their own ideas on what’s romantic and what’s not. But girls want someone who can identify their most secret wants and act to them.
2. Find Common Ground
It’s said that opposites attract, but science tells us that people who have a lot of things in common have more successful relationships.
It’s also easier to get any women you want if you find common ground with them first.
If she likes reading, don’t tell her you to think books are obsolete. If you hate reading, you can tell her the truth without making a big fuss. But then, challenge her to recommend you one book to get you hooked on reading.
She is bound to ask you what your interests are so she could give you a better recommendation. Now you’re hitting two birds with one stone.
Girls love a challenge, and it will also give you the opportunity to get to know each other better, find out more about your tastes.
Besides, showing a genuine interest in the things she likes is very flattering.
After you finished your book, you can tell her all about it: what you liked, what you didn’t, what challenges you faced and so forth.
Now is the time to return the favor and challenge her to do something that you like. But make it a good one because this is your chance to woo her.
3. Work On Yourself
Another universal truth about ladies is that they want someone who’s strong and self-assured.
It’s true that some women fall in love with guys who are broken by a traumatic experience in their past. But don’t go after girls like that. Their savior complex will never be satisfied.
Even if they manage to make you feel better, they’ll never be happy when you’re happy. So maybe they’ll make you miserable or move on to another broken guy.
That said, you don’t have to be smug, all you need is a reliable internal compass. You need to know right from wrong and stick to your values.
Real women don’t want a broken, sad puppy. So make peace with who you are, be upfront, honest and just, and you can get any girl.
4. Have Her Back
Women like men they can count on; that’s another axiom.
But this theory looks different in practice, depending on what your dream girl is like.
Some women hate men who can’t change a flat tire or fix a pipe.
Some women hate men who can’t take their side in an argument with their dads, even if they’re wrong.
Some women hate guys who can’t woo them with a funny pick-up line.
But all women want men who can step up to the challenge because they all want a dependable partner.
If you show your dream girl that you will be by her side no matter what life throws at you, she is bound to fall in love with you.
But how can you do that if you’re not together yet?
Act that way with your friends and family. Tell her stories that show you’re a reliable person. Don’t gossip about your loved ones, rather tell her how much you love them.
5. Don’t Be Self-Absorbed
Do you know those guys who can’t stop bragging about that extra set of reps they squeezed in at the gym? Or that guitar player who never stops talking about synthesizers and keeps singing instead of talking like normal people?
It’s nice to have things that you’re passionate about, but guys who are obsessed about these things are a drag.
Women want someone who puts them first.
The smartest women will never ask you to pick between you and your love for football games. But they want to be sure that, if a zombie apocalypse broke out, you would save them and not your favorite Ronaldo T-shirt.
However, you might get to find a girl who loves your hobby as much as you do. But girls like that are very rare. So if you’re into your passion too much, you won’t be able to get any girls you want.
You learned some good tips on how to get women so far, but you’ve not yet learned the Mistake (yes, capital M).
Most guys who want to woo a specific girl always act like she’s the center of attention. Like they should do everything she wants them to do.
But you know what? That gets boring after some time. Plus it shows a lack of spine or interest in your own life.
The most you’re going to get with that approach is the friendzone.
Which is fine if you want to get more women to be your friends. But I’m guessing that’s not the case.
So you should never crawl. Never smother her. Give her space. Don’t give up your plans for her. Never beg, no matter what she tells you.
Do all those things, and I guarantee you’ll get any girls you want. And once you get the woman of your dreams, come back here and tell me how you did!